Tuesday, June 30, 2009

They said New York changed us

They said New York changed us.

They meant it in a bad way.

They said New York made us hard. They said New York made us too independent. They said we became cold. They said the city made us cynical, even jaded.

They said New York caused our southern accents to fade and turned us into Yankees. They said we spent too much money on rent and too much time at work.

They said New York made us impatient. They said New York made us rude and abrasive.

They said we forgot who we were and where we came from.

They said New York changed us.


I say New York changed us.

But I mean it in a good way.

I say New York made us stronger. Made us braver. In fact, made us fearless.

I say New York stretched us. I say New York challenged us. I say New York taught us. I say New York required guts - required heart - that we didn't know we had.

I say New York was the fertilizer that helped us grow faster, greener, more vibrant, more colorful.

I say New York reminded us of home and made us even prouder of our roots.

I say God used this city to bless us. Prosper us. Ignite our passions. Restore our faith. Awaken our souls.

I say New York changed us.

And we will never be the same.

10 comments:

elizabeth said...

No words. Perfect.

Bethany Michelle said...

Awww J!! I was convinced you must be quoting something... until I got to "They said New York caused our southern accents to fade and turned us into Yankees"... :)

Love this one. Love you.

Jessica said...

This is amazing.

Anonymous said...

AUNT NITA SAID.....NO ONE COULD SAY IT BETTER. I HOPE YOU PLAN TO WRITE A BOOK SOON ABOUT THE CITY YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH.....I WILL BUY THE FIRST DOZEN COPIES.....
LOVE YOU....

Cindy said...

Jamie, check out the old song by Harry Nilsson "The Lord must be in New York City" It is the last song in You've got Mail. It just seems to mesh with your post. Love ya,
Hannah's mom

lauren said...

perfection. as always. <3

Ava Grace said...

As someone who recently left the city to move back home to the south, I could not have said it any better...perfection. I'm a big fan of your blog!

onlylivinggirl said...

Amen, sister.

Aurelie said...

As a native New Yorker, I absolutely adore this post. As a new blogger, I'm excited to find someone in the city to read about!

Mary said...

Oh my gosh, Jamie! I love this post! You should send it to the NY TIMES; it is totally worth sharing!