Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Video of the day, take 2

Someone (I can only assume Coke) deleted the adorable John Krasinski Coke Rewards video I posted yesterday. People! If you have Internet users who are embedding your commercial on their blogs, it's in your best interest to leave it be. Free media impressions!

Because I'm sad, here's another video... a Tuesday afternoon smile, if you will. Bonus in this one: you get Ellen and Rainn Wilson. Oh, and a DANCE-OFF.


Monday, April 27, 2009

Video of the day

A Monday morning smile for you...is he not just THE cutest?!




* Dedicated, as always, to my friend Lauren Spina

Friday, April 24, 2009

A million lifetimes

Do you ever feel like you need a million lifetimes to do everything you want to do?


I want to be a writer. I want to write a magazine column for New York and a newspaper column for the Times. I want to write a novel. And a non-fiction book about living in New York. And perhaps a screenplay.

But I also want to continue to work in advertising. I love working at ad agencies! Maybe I could move to Seattle and work on the Starbucks account. Or I could work in marketing for NBC? Or for the Food Network! Oh and I've been thinking about advertising sales...

But I've always wanted to own a coffee shop. Or a bed and breakfast. Or a tea room. Or a gift shop. Maybe a tea room with a gift shop? Or cupcakes! I'll run a cupcake bakery. Or maybe just a cute cafe that makes chicken salad sandwiches and sweet tea.

Ahhh sweet tea. I want to live in the South again. I love Atlanta. There are the cute houses with front porches in the Highlands...or those amazing lofts in West Atlanta! Oh but I've always wanted to live in Nashville. And there's Athens, the Promised Land! I could definitely live in a house off campus and go to every home football game in the fall and stroll downtown in the spring. I'll have a white picket fence, a husband, three kids and a golden retriever.

And I could be a professor. That's it! I'll get my MBA...at Wharton? Or Vanderbilt? Or NYU? Or Georgia State? And then I'll get my doctorate and teach marketing courses at my alma mater. Or I could do student affairs. Or work in admissions. Or development?

Too many choices. Maybe I'll just stay in New York. I'm finally living in my favorite neighborhood, the Upper West Side. But I have always wanted to live in the East Village. And the West Village. And maybe right off Gramercy Park, just once? And I want a roof deck with Chinese lantern lights! And exposed brick! And a working fireplace!

And I'll frequent JFK. I'll return to the places I love...to Southern California. To Boston. To London. To Paris and Cinque Terre. And I'll travel to the places I've never been, Austin and Portland and Las Vegas and Hawaii. Barcelona and Prague and Budapest and Greece. Thailand and Bora Bora and Australia.

Or maybe I'll go indefinitely and be a waitress at a European cafe. Maybe I'll be a bartender at a beach in the sand. Maybe I'll run a bakery in the South of France and sell chocolat. Maybe I'll move to Italy and learn Italian, or Spain and perfect my Spanish.

Maybe.

I don't know how it all fits together, or if it's even possible to see it all, to be it all, to experience it all, to do it all, to have it all. Actually, I'm certain it's not.

Which is exactly why I need a million lifetimes to do everything I want to do.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

On writing

You have no idea what you will do with these bits and pieces.  All you know is that you want to capture what you see with words, you want to preserve moments and then turn them upside down to see what truth lies beneath.


- Dan Barry

The sword of the Spirit

Last night, I was lying in bed and couldn't sleep. My mind was racing and going ten different directions. I'm not really one to worry about things, but at 1am, everything seems bigger and more overwhelming and more upsetting and scarier. In a matter of minutes I went from regular old tossing and turning to anxiety and tears. I could not have been further from sleep as I mentally played through leases and moving and roommates and my job and money and relationships and friendships and faith and beyond.

And then God spoke to me. I prayed aloud,

"Yet this I call to mind
and therefore I have hope:
Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness."

And then I fell asleep.


"Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

Therefore put on the full armor of God...Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God."

* Lamentations 3:21-23 and Ephesians 6:10-13, 17

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

I love New York because, part II

I love New York in the summer. I love eating on patios and sidewalks. I love buying $14.90 sundresses from H&M. I love going to Boat Basin and running into twelve people I know. I love friends who have parties on West Village rooftops with twinkling lights hanging overhead. I love taking the LIRR to the beach for a day. I love buying Dunkin Donuts iced coffee on my way to work every morning. I even love how black my feet look after a long Saturday out in the city. I love New York in the summer because you can do anything you want or nothing at all, as long as you're having fun.

I love New York in the fall. I love the crispness in the air. I love the pumpkins that pile on the side of the street by my grocery store. I love the colors in Central Park. I love watching "You've Got Mail" and thinking about buying a bouquet of sharpened pencils. I love watching college football at the Village Pourhouse. I love seeing schoolkids in plaid uniforms. I love Pumpkin Spice Lattes from Starbucks. I love walking down the street in the morning with an anticipation that good things are right around the corner. I love New York in the fall because it feels like anything is possible.

I love New York in the winter. I love the Christmas tree at Rockefeller Center and the windows at Saks. I love the old school snowflakes that adorn the light posts downtown. I love the sound of Salvation Army Santa bells jingling. I brightly colored scarves and coats. I love stumbling upon a restaurant with a working fireplace. I love the tradition of Times Square on New Years, even though I will never attend the festivities. (Ever.) And I love, love, love the snow. I love New York in the winter because every moment is a memory.

I love New York in the spring. I love the bright pink tulips and yellow daffodils that fill the tiny plots of land around trees on the sidewalks. I love that first day when you decide it's warm enough to wear flip flops. I love figuring out a way to take a spring break vacation. I love when country music finally feels right again. I love Daylight Savings Time and leaving work before sunset...because you do know that it gets dark at 4:30 pm in the winter in Manhattan, right? I love New York in the spring because it fills my soul with color, and life, and hope.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Together

I dare you to get through this New York Times: Modern Love article without shedding a tear. I, for one, shed about 12 and lost a contact.

In a Charmed Life, a Road Less Traveled

"'I don’t know if I can do this for the rest of my life,' she said.
All I could say was, 'We’ll do it together.'”

That, my friends, is love.

(Thanks to Honey B for the article!)

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Am I in a blog rut?

I know I have been inundating you with songs, lyrics and music videos lately, but man! so much good music just keeps making its way to my ears and eyeballs. I blame Web 2.0 and the democratization of content. ;)


Hopefully you enjoyed the stop motion Oren Lavie video a couple weeks ago. Now, I present to you another one of my recent favorites from Lisa Hannigan. Watch 'til the end... it's cool and totally worth 04:58 of your life. (Plus, the song's adorable!)



I Don't Know from ATO Records on Vimeo.


I don't know if you can swim or if the sea has any draw for you
If you're better in the morning or when the sun goes down
I'd like to call you
I don't know if you can dance, if the thought ever occurred to you
If you eat what you've been given or push it round your plate
I'd like to cook for you all the same
I would want to
I am game


p.s. Jessica recently got me a book entitled No One Cares What You Had for Lunch: 100 Ideas for Your Blog. I need to bust it out and start writing things, instead of continuously copying and pasting lyrics and embedding videos!!

Friday, April 17, 2009

Vent of the Day

What is up with "Push to Exit" buttons?


Do you know the ones? If not, let me just tell you. My office has a button like this. Past six o'clock, you have to push this red button on the wall in order to exit the glass doors that lead to the elevator bank. Similarly, my friend Angie has one at her apartment building. You literally cannot go out her courtyard door and onto the sidewalk unless you find and press this little button.

Really?! Is this some kind of building safety feature that I am unaware of? Because all I can think of every time I have to press a button to leave my office or Angie's apartment is WHAT IF SOMEONE WAS CHASING ME WITH A KNIFE AND I COULDN'T FIND THE BUTTON? What kind of building needs a button to let someone out? Isn't the whole point of the lock and key situation to guarantee that only the safe people get in the building in the first place?

And, if you are a robber or a murderer or a knife-wielding psychopath and somehow managed to get into my office or Angie's apartment, is a button really going to hinder you from escaping before someone calls 9-1-1? Like, are you in the midst of your criminal mission and you get caught so you run to the door and push and it doesn't open and you look left and right and can't open it so you just throw your hands up and say, "Oh well, guess I'll just sit in this lovely vestibule 'til the police arrive...I'd really like to exit the building to roam free and wreak havoc on society. Too bad there's not a BUTTON."

...

I just had an epiphany. I've heard of these buttons...

"Last thing I remember, I was
Running for the door
I had to find the passage back
To the place I was before
'Relax,' said the night man,
'We are programmed to receive.
You can checkout any time you like,
But you can never leave'"

Great. I work at the Hotel California.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

You've come to the right place

One of my favorite things about blogging is Google Analytics. (Pause to note that that's possibly the nerdiest sentence I have ever typed.) I like knowing that I have readers in Malaysia and Nicaragua and 41 US states, that 33% of my readers use Firefox, and that my Six Word Stories post has been viewed more than anything I've written.

But my favorite thing about Google Analytics is taking a look at how folks from all over the Internet get to Lulled by the Train. Thanks to my Project Runway blogging days, one can Google horrible prom dresses, blayne holler at your boy, hedda lettuce's birth name or republic of cocktailland and get directed here. And there are plenty of people who found me thanks to searching for Donny Deutsche being an idiot and Taylor Swift's Fearless liner notes. There are even the two people who Googled lulled by the "train com" (unnecessary quotes much?).

But my favorite Google searches that got readers here are...

  • pterodactyl parking garage
  • you don't have to be a man to love manwich
  • leann rimes is such a slut see through blouse
  • what would be a good name for a diva
  • jingle for stupid people
  • horatio sanz nude
  • hansel and gretel parade float
  • venus schnitzel

And last but certainly not least...

  • jamie love nyc

So take note, Internet World! If you're looking for a one-stop shop for all your Republic of Cocktail Land, Stupid Jingle, Venus Schnitzel, Manwich needs, you've come to the right place.

Friday, April 10, 2009

The Hope of Good Friday

I was thinking today about why Good Friday is called Good Friday.

Good Friday was sad - no, more than sad - it was devastatingly tragic. There were earthquakes. It was dark. A mother lost her son, a brother lost his kin, the disciples lost their friend. It's the day that Jesus was violently murdered on the cross. The day that our beloved Savior was nailed to a tree. The day that Christ cried out in anguish, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?"

I can say with absolute certainty that Good Friday seemed like the most hopeless day that will ever exist in all of eternity. The Messiah, the one who came to save and restore His people, died and was buried in a borrowed grave. The One who created heaven and earth, the Son of God, was mocked, beaten and killed by ignorant and hateful people. Everything that the disciples... everything that all of creation for all of time... had been believing in and hoping for was questioned and ripped apart.

So why do we call this horrible, sad, gruesome Friday "Good?"

Because we know the end of the story.

I have no doubt that the disciples would not have called this day "good" as it was happening. But they should have known better, right? Jesus had told them the end of the story, too. He told them he would rise after three days. He told them he was the Messiah that they had been waiting for. He promised that he offered eternal life. But in the middle of their story, as the plot thickened and the dramatic climax broke, the goodness of the end of the story got muddled by the sadness of the circumstances.

In our lives, we too are constantly making our way through days and events that we would call anything but good. Sad? Yes. Heartbreaking? Yes. Disappointing? Yes.

Hopeless? Yes.

But - hope resides in the fact that we know that this is not the end of the story; it's just the beginning. We recognize today as Good Friday not because of the events that transpired on it, but because of THE event that came three days later. We find goodness and hope in the day that Christ died because we know that there is no greater goodness, no greater hope, than that which is found in Easter.

As we struggle through life, making our way through the trials and tribulations that inevitably come our way, may we find our hope in Christ alone. He is writing our story. He is the great I Am. He knows the end.

And it is good.


"Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God."
Hebrews 12:2

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

Dream Like New York

"Dream of New York," H.R. Giger, 1958


So many dreams come and go
We blink our eyes
Time flies by we don't know
What ever happened to those childhood years?
When we thought we could fly
We got to keep those dreams alive

And dream like New York
As high as the skyline
Aim for the stars above those city lights
I want to dream like New York
I'm running down Broadway
I got to catch the next train
I'm making my way


Race to work again today
From nine to five
I only strive to stay awake
But the child inside me
Dares to believe I still can fly
Can't let those dreams just die

I got to dream like New York
As high as the skyline
Aim for the stars above those city lights
I want to dream like New York
I'm running down Broadway
I got to catch the next train
I'm making my way


How many times have you tried and failed?
Have you watched your dreams slip away?
Well every hero falls and every soldier crawls
And every dreamer dreams again
Got to dream again

Go on and dream like New York
As high as the skylines
Aim for the stars above those city lights
Go on and dream like New York
Run on down Broadway
Catch the next train
Go make your way



- Tyrone Wells



Friday, April 03, 2009

Get down and break a sweat

I joined a new gym this week. (Any NYSC members out there? If so, let's go spinning together!) You have most likely never met someone who hates working out more than I do. To combat this hatred, I have found two key motivating forces: clothes and music. If you think those sound ridiculous, well, you're probably right, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

Last year for Christmas, I knocked out a) clothes. (Note: This was in my "I want to run the New York Marathon!" phase.) (Note, part b: As of today, I can't run five minutes without wanting to kill myself.) Nevertheless, with my new gym membership, I already had a closet full of adorable color-coordinated exercise clothes, including hot pink sports bras, a 3-piece gray and baby blue ensemble and snazzy red and white Asics shoes.

But regarding b) music. As I was jamming on the eliptical machine yesterday, I realized that my "Workout" playlist could use some improvement. Some of my favorites include -

  • "That's Not My Name," The Ting Tings
  • "Little of Your Time," Maroon 5
  • "My Life Would Suck Without You," Kelly Clarkson
  • "Mr Brightside," The Killers
  • "Hot N Cold," Katy Perry

What are your favorite songs to workout to that I should add to my playlist?

Thursday, April 02, 2009

Music Video of the Day

L-O-V-E this.




Awoken by a cloud of steam
She pours a daydream in a cup
A spoon of sugar sweetens up

And she fights for her life
As she puts on her coat
And she fights for her life on the train
She looks at the rain
As it pours
And she fights for her life
As she goes in a store
With a thought she has caught
By a thread
She pays for the bread
And she goes...
Nobody knows


- Oren Lavie